In our lives whom and what we choose as priority is very important.. basically everything depends on it – our day to day life, thoughts , our actions,  whom or what we choose to do with our time – everything depends on our priorities. 
Now, being on the priority list in someone’s life is very special , not everyone s blessed or cursed to be like that.  Blessing is of course you get the attention n curse is of course you need to return the same.
Now, being nobody’s priority is sad but also not having anyone as priority is best ! You need not answer or ask questions..  Life is simple !
When a person chooses to lose their self respect over this so called “priority” , Is it really worth it ?? I am genuinely concerned on tat person’s ability to prioritize things and ppl in life then.
It’s funny how priorities change with time , some ppl show so much of importance to you in the beginning n gradually its jus vanished and I wonder how tats possible… shouldn’t the bond grow stronger day by day?!  I guess it works different with different species n in different planet.
One should always prioritize themselves over everything. This need not be put under the label of “selfishness” rather “self care” . Just the core of yourself should not be lost coz of someone else . It can be improved for better but never compromised. End of the day the question is bound to come what has the other person done for you in return ?! We humans talk great about unconditional love but tat does not exist among us .. we are very transactional and inspite of that you can sense traces of unconditional love but that is very rare !!